Avoid Broke: Know These 11+ Examples of Economic Outpatient Care

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In The Millionaire Next Door, Thomas J. Stanley, Ph.D. and William D. Danko, Ph.D. coin the term “economic outpatient care” (EOC). This term references economic subsidies that a benefactor bestows on a fully capable adult, generally a parent who provides financial assistance to a grown child.

The irony of EOC is that these subsidies — which may be intended to provide the recipient with the means to become financially stable — may have the opposite effect. Gifts create economic dependence instead of accelerating financial independence.

Initially, I imagined that EOC is a problem associated with wealthy families like those profiled in the “millionaire” books. But even average-income families give and receive EOC. Here are some examples of economic outpatient care that helped me think and rethink how we handle money in our family:

  1. House

    Yes, some parents give their children a house without a mortgage. The home may be a former rental property or it may be the family home that the parent no longer needs.

  2. Car

    A new or, more likely, a used car is a rite-of-passage gift that the child may receive upon getting a driver's license or graduating from high school or college.

  3. Car insurance and maintenance

    If parents buy a car for a child, they may also pay car insurance, taxes, and expenses to maintain the vehicle.

  4. Childcare

    Parents may provide free childcare on an ongoing basis (while the parents work, for example) or periodically (when the parents take a weekend getaway)

  5. Private school tuition

    Grandparents may pay the private-school tuition for their grandchildren.

  6. House down payment

    When the kids are ready to buy a house, parents may give them the money for a downpayment.

  7. Vacations

    Parents may allow children to stay in their vacation homes. They may pay the lodging bill and other expenses for a vacation with the extended family.

  8. Healthcare insurance

    If children work in jobs without healthcare benefits or they are still in college, parents may keep their children on their healthcare insurance plan at work until the child turns 26.

  9. Cell-phone bills

    Parents may include their children on a cell phone plan long after they've graduated from high school or college as combined family plans may (seem to) save money for everyone.

  10. Cash or stock gifts

    Parents may give cash or stock gifts to their children or grandchildren on special occasions or yearly as a family bonus of sorts.

  11. Major bills

    To help launch a child into the real world, parents may fund a business start-up or help them get established in a new city, supplying cash for the move, deposits, furniture, and appliances.

  12. Living expenses

    Parents may give their kids money designated for rent, utilities, clothing, groceries, etc. or just pass along cash for general living expenses.

After reading this list, I can see that there are many ways to give and receive economic outpatient care. I acknowledge that — for legitimate reasons — I may want to give money to my kids or accept gifts from my parents (or vice versa as grown adult children may help their parents).

I shouldn't feel guilty, for example, for receiving and accepting an invitation to stay with family members at their beach house or lake cabin.

But if gifts are skewing a sense of what's affordable and what's not, and possibly preventing someone I love from developing sustainable financial habits, then it may be time to reevaluate economic subsidies.

You want to give your children your best, which means not giving them everything. Get affirmation that you're making the right decisions by reading The Millionaire Next Door.

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